Great ideas. Thank you so much. You got my wheels a turning. I know that there are things that she would like to start doing, but if I bring them up she will not be very responsive. I agree with your idea of doing it on my own first to further generate her interest. I know once I start she will come on board. I did not see the benefit of this concept until I just read it in your post. I have already did this once and did not realize it. Before we got divorced I told her we should join a gym. She told me she did not want to. I thought nothing of it and went and joined anyway. After I had gone a few times, she began to show interest. Soon we were both going several times a week. We stopped going once she moved further away.
Originally Posted By: SirPrizeMe
oh, and one last thought (maybe this is more for me than for you): patience. it took a while to get where you are. It will take a while to get somewhere else.
That is one thing that I beginning to understand a lot better. Thank you for the reminder. Time and patience are my biggest ally. This I know from experience.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
