I am not ready to say this to my H, but I wanted to post it so I can refer to it later if I need to. I have been confused as to how to drop the rope without making it seem like I actually want a D.
I don't think you have to do this. I still think you can influence the situation through ACTIONS without having to talk about it at all.
You were unavailable all weekend and you two had a darn good night together - remember that!
Glad you liked the tail fluffing analogy.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread