I've been seperated for almost 100 days now...so I think I should move to the "Seperated" category now.
It looks like I have the typical WAW whom I love very dearly. Please read my first thread to get detailed background.
I've read DR and have scheduled a second DB coaching session with Jodie for tomorrow. Really concentrating on GALing & PMA.
I've been meeting with W every 7-10 days for breakfasts, dinners, etc and have been getting on really well. these meetings normally go for about 2 hrs. Absolutly no negitive talk or R talk. I'm just concentrating on a fun time and cheerleading her. That is one area that I need to improve on. She is a dreamer and I'm a realist....but that's what I love about her.
I'm planning on just continueing on this track until she brings the subject up for a more serious conversation.
I don't really have any defined goals yet. Maybe Jodie can help me clarify some. If doing what works is a goal...then I'm doing ok with that one. I'm doing good at giving her space as well....so maybe I can give myself a small pat on the back.
Emotionally, I'm still trying to let go of the rope, if fact I say that to myself a couple of times a day when ever my mind starts to get stressed out about my situation. " Let go of the rope"...."free youself from the situation".
I hope to get to know a couple of you in the near future.
Thanks Clayton
H - 39 W - 38 M - 10 years, Dated 1 LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008 Moved out - 5/18/08 no kids - 2 cats
