2. I will not make frequent phone calls to XH but if he calls me I will answer.

4. I will not try and get XH's attention when he is here and will be happy with him just being present.

12.I will act as if and get on with MY life and I will find things to do that keep me busy (#14)

13.I will be cheerful, strong, outgoing and attractive at all times because it will make me feel better about myself

Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

The end of the DB road