You are again my hero! Actually, you haven't been proven right yet, but you basically told me exactly what I thought might be going through her head although I couldn't have described it that well. I will definitely take your advice on this one - what you said just makes too much sense!
The flowers were beautiful by the way - she brought them home today. I'd already seen them as I picked them out, and I wrote the card myself while at the flower shop. I felt like I'd done well not to initiate sex or act like I was expecting something since sending them, but it's so reassuring to hear you say that. I've remained really upbeat lately around my wife, and I can suddenly hit golf balls pretty well too (just got back from the range a few minutes ago). And believe me, I've been "relieving pressure" every chance I get.
Corri, thank you so much. I really hope that you're right about this, and I honestly think that you can't be off by much, if at all. I'll keep you posted.
