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How long was it before you began dating? You know what is right (i.e. the pursuing, the detaching, GAL) so no time for lectures. You have it in yourself to be happy without this person. In my opinion when you discover that is when she is most likely to come running. Although we know that isn't the point. Hang in there and I will, we all will, be here for support.


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Everyone makes good points. I am fearful of doing the LRT only to put more distance between us. Thank you for your thoughts. I especially helps to hear first hand accounts of how the LRT effected others. Lots to think about.


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WAW now LBS part I & II
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Originally Posted By: HOPEFULinCALI
Nothavingfun

How long was it before you began dating? You know what is right (i.e. the pursuing, the detaching, GAL) so no time for lectures. You have it in yourself to be happy without this person. In my opinion when you discover that is when she is most likely to come running. Although we know that isn't the point. Hang in there and I will, we all will, be here for support.


I was 8 months divorced and she was 2.5 yrs sperated. When I met her, I got that "spark" I spoke of earlier. It just seemed to click in so many ways. Thought it was that way for 2 yrs.

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