Hi YR, Thank you for your encouragement. I must admit I am doing quite alright.
Hi nlt, I am happy that you finally got my rain I sent you - LOL. Yes, rainy days also depress me.
This afternoon I met a lady I got to know in a restaurant. We went to the beach but it was too cold for me to swim. We had a lovely afternoon.
I got an e-mail from H. I could not believe what I read! He thanked me for my help with the realtor. Then he said that he gives it over to me to deal with the realtor. I should earn my money! It makes him too unhappy to be at the property and he hopes I understand!!!!!!
I am speechless! I really don't mind helping him and I told him if he needs further help, I will be there for him. But this is just too much. It was him who wanted the property and bought it after he left. He wanted it as an investment and to live there with OW. Well, it is not my fault that nothing worked out. Now it looks as if he wants me to bail him out again. I will just not do it anymore.
I am really worried about H. He seems to get crazier as time goes by. I just hope it will not come true what a L told me. She said that I should be happy if H wants a D, as it seems he is off the wall. And if it gets worse H will end up needing care in his old age, and I would have to support him.
I thought of answering H's e-mail as follows:
Quote I am gladly helping you with the realtor and I understand that it makes you unhappy to be there. However, it will be up to you to decide what price you want to sell it for. In any case, the realtor told me he is doing his best to sell it. But he will have to contact YOU if he has an offer etc., as I cannot decide whether to accept it or not. Therefore, I would appreciate it if you continue to deal with it as it is up to you to decide. Unquote
