Thanks Lola, I really hesitated to post this because my R with my W is the only relationship that I've ever been in and I feel like I must be missing something.
After reading what Fish had to say and some of his old thread, I thought that everyone was right to jump his case and then he confirmed it with his update. He basically went from his W to her best friend and it sounded to me like for the last 7 months has been with the BF. I would never say that was a good idea.
I'm not sure that Sawks is making the right choice. I felt like the conversations were missing out on some possibilities besides following after Fish.
