Hi TD, yes you assumed right it is a class I teach and yes we coordinate how to take care of D especially now that she's out of school.
While it's true that he really doesn't need an explanation of what I'm doing when D and work is involved it does to an extent. I think the best solution was/is to tell him my class is/was cancelled and leave it at that. (He has told me in the past when a class was cancelled). Then he can ask me what we should do. Then if I want to do something else I could tell him or if he wanted to do something else he could tell me. That way no one gets the sh!tty end of the stick and nobody feels a lack of trust or gets controlled.
How does that sound? Maybe a little less scheming and a little more honest?
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
