Dan we don't have a set schedule and to be honest neither of us would function well with one. Due to the type of work we do we never know our schedule from one day to the next and quite often we go day to day with the responsibilities. It works for us. In the beginning I told him I thought that we should have one day for ourselves a weekend; for example Fridays would be my day and Saturdays would be his day but that didn't sit well with him at the time because he thought I was controlling him. I let it go. To be honest though all I have to do is ask him to come get D and I can go do what I like. Since she's living with me then he doesn't need to do that but neither has he offered to watch her so I could do smoething for myself. That doesn't bother me though since like i said all I have to do is ask.
The D papers say that he'll take D every second weekend but since he doesn't have his own place yet we haven't put that to practice. It also says that he can see D whenever he wants and I'm ok with that because he's her Dad and he loves her so much.
Through all of this we've managed to be very civil and friendly (with some F ups along the way).
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
