You got lots of feedback, but I still feel like chiming in. I do think it's possible for it to be just about sex. In fact, if it meant more than that, why did he treat you like a leper afterwards (before anyone else says anything, yeah yeah, I know, guilt...which I don't buy). He knows you are hung up on him and he's horny. Personally, I find it attractive when it isn't as easy as hopping into bed....the chase is attractive. You didn't make him chase. Come on, play hard to get.
And, while some guys feel more connected to a woman when they have sex....others don't, and when it's over feel less connected.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
