I get that, but I also think you are moving in the dating arena too fast. My thinking is this: I get that you don't want to work out the M, and that is cool. Heck, when you are done, you are done. But, devil's advocate...you don't want to go into a new relationship and make the same mistakes again. That's why you need time to get to know yourself, and still DB because that will utimately make you a catch that any woman would feel very lucky to have.
I hear you but i allready think i was a catch(i partied once or twice a month with my buddies, but according to my wife that would be all weekend parties, which was never the case), now i am refining that. I have promised myself i won't make the same mistakes and I won't. And yes I am still DB , gym is my GAL and getting over my fears and, well u guys all do it well u know what i mean. I think the new girl is quite enamored with me and i have explained what the sich is, she has been there done that and is ok with it. We're just hanging out anyways, that is slow isn't it?
