If you are moving back, you are miles ahead of many.

You want to know what you can do to build your attraction from him.

For me, it has been the chase. The person I want, wants me to move on. The more I try to LRT, the weaker I feel. I GAL but come home feeling lower. I miss her in my life very much. And I find myself giving in and emailing her (against all recomendations of any book I have read) But I can't get my heart to listen to my head.

Men are, for the most part, straight forward. Ask him what he needs.

Women like to believe we can read minds and understand all the body language you use. WE DON'T! Even if we do, we get upset that you don't speak directly.

If you are on talking terms and working through this, do a "sit down" Make a list. Draw charts and have weekly or bi-weekly sit downs and map out each others progress. Trying to keep it all together in your head is too much.

Is the OW truly out of the pic now?