I can't put my finger on it exactly, but I get the feeling that you thought she would have some big epiphany once she had to leave your house. And, that you are anxiously waiting and watching for any signs that it may be happening. You're wasting valuable time and energy. Try to disconnect from her words and actions.
Not exactly, I don't expect an epiphany any time soon. Just wondering if her behavior is that of someone who is 'done' yet.