I promise you ladies he is not analysing his night as much as you women are scheming. \:\) Jen just do what you want to do. You want to do it for you and its good for you. You all are spending energy on the wrong issue.
Guys are dogs. The dog is not listening. So you stop chasing the dog. Dog gets bored. Now you can get the dogs attention. Cat walks by all self-absorbed, dog can't stand it and must chase the cat. Be the cat.

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.