I get that, but I also think you are moving in the dating arena too fast. My thinking is this: I get that you don't want to work out the M, and that is cool. Heck, when you are done, you are done. But, devil's advocate...you don't want to go into a new relationship and make the same mistakes again. That's why you need time to get to know yourself, and still DB because that will utimately make you a catch that any woman would feel very lucky to have.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..