By taking the time to put your sitch into these "bite sized" pieces, you have given a great gift to countless others.
I will always wish you all of the best!
Good luck as well with the IVF. An architect that I work with came by yesterday with pics of his kids. They used IVF for their first baby, a D now 3. The second time with IVF they had twin D's, now 18 mos. His W just found out they are expecting #4.... with no IVF Ain't life grand!!!
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.