The first domino

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Julia, thats not nice to see something like that. The annoying thing is, its such a small piece of information that you start imagining all sorts to make sense of it, I know. But you have done well if you have put it out of your mind.

I wanted to ask, how come your H's family are ignoring you? Do they feel awkward? Are they on his side? Is there anyone in the family (e.g: SIL) that you could reach out to? My BIL never spoke to me after my ex left, after 9 years of being close to him, my SIL sent me an unkind email saying she was sick of other peoples problems and would only talk to me about my plans for the future (nice!)..but then I stayed at their house a few months ago and they were totally welcoming.. yet if I had taken their actions months earlier to heart, I'd have sworn they wanted nothing more to do with me! I'm just saying, you dont know, people find it awkward to reach out. My ex's BMF W said to me she hadnt called as she ijust didnt know what to say, which was silly... so could you try contacting her? If you make a few inroads into your old family R's (I dont mean stalking, just the odd phone convo/email say!) maybe you will feel less excluded? For me, my ex was totally fine about me doing this, he didnt see it as 'his' friends and family, as he could have done, but I dont know how your H would react, so if you think it wouldnt help matters, then ignore me !

Ok, phew, long ramble over. BTW, a girl who contacts someone via FB to ask for a code to play online with a Wii machine, doesnt sound like much of a catch, IMHO !!!! But maybe I'm just getting old

Ali xxx