yes I think choice 3 would work best too Amy...right now he's doing things when he wants to and he knows that I don't like it. Now if I were to actually suggest that he do something it would stop him in his tracks and wonder WTF has gotten into her? A couple of times and it might just have an affect. Great 180.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
