luvhubby,

Thanks for your post. Don't have much time to respond as I'm headed out to catch a plane, but thought I'd try to quickly answer a couple of your questions

You're right that my comment about moving into another bedroom was just out of frustration, as was my comment about taking a vacation by myself. I really wish that we could afford for my wife to stop working - I think that would help a lot by relieving her of that stress and letting her spend more time with the girls. Unfortunately it's not an option at the moment - the payments on our house and her new Expedition pretty much rule that out. But I'm hoping that it will be possible within a couple of years.

Gotta run - just wanted to let you know that I appreciate your input.

Sooner