I can see both sides of your delema. Which 180 do you think would make the biggest impact on your sitch.
The one were you GAL (honestly I think you have done a fair bit of that with the Hash's etc....but you know better than me)
or
The one where you show your H that you are comfortable and confident in him going off and doing something else (heck he might be so surprised by it that he might offer for y'all to get dinner or something else....though he seems a bit testy lately)
A third alternative might be to say "Hey my class got cancelled tonight, so I can come home early tonight to watch D if you have other things to do". After he responds you could follow up with "I have been needing a little break from the house, would you mind watching her one evening later in the week so I can go out and see a movie".....kid of like getting a 2 for 1 on the 180.
Jen,
You need to show him you are confident and don't feel the need to "control" or manipulate his activities. He needs to be free from this so he can come back to you
((((((Jen))))))
Last edited by TwinDad; 08/26/0807:46 PM.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
