You handled the counseling and car trip following great. Don't play into his game. That is exactly what he is expecting. I am normally a very outspoken person especially when it comes to relationships and it has been the most difficult thing I have had to do, to hold my tongue. I understand and I don't know what I would have done given your sitch but you did the right thing.
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