WAW...now LBS part III

[HOPEFULinCALI]

I haven't seen any WAH on this board but I am curious to know if any of the guys could chime in on this one. I was listening to the radio this morning and the dj's were explaining how men and women were different in terms of what makes them fall in love. I have read the five love languages and I have done my best to appeal to his love language without success.

I would guess that things such as affection and affirmation would be a place to start but since my H is now the WAH and I was previously the WAW it seems as if this approach isn't the answer in this case. I have followed the DB rules and the advice of my coach but he doesn't seem any closer to wanting to reconcile.

Any ideas? How can I get his attention? Thanks!