I just wanted to let you know that I know how you feel. It turns out that the OW who my XH had an EA with 7 months ago is still around too. I don't think there's anything emotional but just the same it hurts that he could be friends with her. And worst that he doesn't understand why it hurts.
You're not alone and whatever you want to say to him come here and vent. You'll get it off your chest and still save face with your H. I know how easy it is to confront your H but it's true it doesn't take you closer to your goal. Take it from me because I've BTDT.
Chill and think positive for tomorrow. Did you choose an outfit?
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*