Sorry about the cursed post! I understand how hectic things can get so go have a great vacation and save your wise words for when you have some time. No problem here.
Thanks for your supportive post luvhubby. I think you're right that my slacking off on the posting is a good thing from the standpoint that I'm not trying so hard to find some magic way to fix my wife's lack of desire - I'm basically just trying to control my own actions and feelings. But it helps to hear someone else confirm that. I'm going home tomorrow after a full week away and I'm planning to be on my best behavior. Wish me luck!