I just don't see that's something you can get over in 4mos.
...or something she can get over in four short months (drugs, alchohol, gambling). That's why I agree that he sounds like a WAH at this point..."Too much water under the bridge" "Too many negative things said." "No way to get past that now."
You actually expected her to forgive you in four months when it's been years that you didn't care enough about your R to change them before?
Again , I don't know how to respond. Maybe i've been burnt so much that I can easily detach once i've gone thru the motions? I don't know what to say
