You don't sound pissed off. It probably seems to most of us that you "got over" your wife awfully fast. Somethings just not right about that. You can want to be free from the drama, and want to be out of an unhealthy situation, but this IS the woman you vowed to spend your life with. I just don't see that's something you can get over in 4mos.
Alot of people i talk to say i seem to have gotten over her rather fast. I don't know how to explain it, but i really don't miss her, and i cannot see myself going back to hanging out with her and her friends(they obviously weren't mine) ever again. Maybe it's just me, maybe i am different from other people, I did my grieving and that's that. I can't explain it, i really can't. Maybe it's something I wanted but never expected to happen. I did vow to spend the rest of my life with her, and at the time I meant it, but now i question if i ever really did. Does that make more sense?
