Back to stage 1...discouraged again

[sandycay]

Don't worry Jen....it will go smoothly. I would tell you about mine but I really think that in order to give her a full spectrum of the situation her questions need to be answered "off the cuff" if you will.

There is a lot of food for thought and have a pen and paper ready. I wrote down all the pointers and eventually followed them. It was a scary leap because she really wanted me to set up boundaries but I have talked about all this before.

I sometimes see your husband as a cake eater....not because of the ML thing but with the daily stopovers and phone calls not pertaining to your business or daughter. He's to intertwined in your life to really get a good perspective of what being Divorced looks like. He needs to see that maybe. Just my opinion and I know it's scarier than hell.