Glad things are looking better, the only advise i can give is you have to be able to forgive, this is so hard and i failed at it after 7years i pushed her away because deep deep down i didnt. She knew it, and say it in my eyes. Before you commit back make sure you can forgive him. Its a fight every day for a long time to stop those suspicous feelings. But if things turn around for you, you have to make the commitment that you will fight everyday to forgive and do it. You will owe to yourself and him! Just my thoughts, have been there and failed. But changing that now. Good luck and take care


Me-39
STBXW-42
together 20yrs
M-17
Kids-2
D-18
S-16
Bomb-96
Bomb-2005
bomb- 3/2008 for a year
Separated 5/08
Filing in July
Today.... Slowly learning a new life!