I'm a huge fan of the DB coaching sessions. The board is great for advice, but the coach can quickly get an idea about things you haven't tried yet, things you might be doing wrong, can help you see things from H's POV etc., at least that was how I found mine. I don't know what will happen at the end of my own situation, but I really think without my coach there wouldn't have been any chance as she helped me get an insight into my own behaviors that were damaging the R.
Can you get a phone card for your call?
Also, don't worry about what to say. The coach will quickly cut to the chase and get out the most important bits.
Please post right after you have your call tomorrow!!!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
