That makes me hope that someday I can tell her that I think this was necessary, that I am glad and grateful that she asked for a seperation, not to get away from her, but it's because what I needed.
I have been looking at this seperation as a mistake, a problem to be fixed. Now I am looking at is as a kind of therapy, something life-altering that you need in order to make big changes and start living a different life, something that will benefit me in the end.
Geez, am I glass half full today or what???


Married 6 years
D4
D4
S2
seperated: 7/15/08
Dbomb: 9/21/08
status: seperated in same home, meeting with mediator moving toward D
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