That's hard. I know I did nothing for my anni this year. Your wife, at least in the past, has wanted you to persue her. I think it might piss her off if you don't acknowledge it. I think a simple text message on the day that says, "thinking about you today" is good. THAT'S ALL. NO happy anniversary, or anything of the sort. No dates, unless she suggests it. But, let her know that you at least know what day it is, and that you thought about her.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
