You have said this before, that the women needs to dicover herself, to find what she wants. I think this impacts my wife a little. She has told me many times that she really does not care if she ever has sex again and appears to be happy with that. She tells me she will have sex to meet my needs. And what really baffles me is that she REALLY enjoys INTENSE orgasms when we actually do it. So if the wife has now FOUND herself, and really just does not want to be intimate or sexual, what is the guy supposed to do? It always seems to come back to divorce, does it not? It seems to me that when 2 people get married, they can not operate as if they are individuals, but rather they must find a way to make the UNION of the 2 people actually work. So rather then work to make ourselves happy, shouls we not seek to find those things that can make us BOTH happy? I am getting more confused here!!
