OK. I'm going to take this opportunity to be a 7yr old and say, "I told you so!"

There. Didn't I say that once you made it clear to her that you are not going to play second fiddle, that she'd come around? I believe if you hadn't stood up the way you did, she'd still take both of you. But, you've made her make a choice, and she's thinking.
Now back off and let her miss you a bit.

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."