P.S. what do you mean about telling the kids? They seem fine with everything and H mentioned yesterday that S12 is old enough to make a decision where he wants to live and has hinted before that he will pick his father.
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08