So sorry to hear about this. You said however that you don't know whether you have another woman to contend with. Is this OW then just someone you have suspicions about? Has your H admitted to be involved/having feelings? If not, why do you think there might be something going on?
I'm sorry that I don't have a lot of advice for this situation, but what is it that you want to do? Would it be a deal breaker for you if something was going on between the 2 of them? If not, do you think it would help in any way to confront your H, or would it make things worse? Are there boundaries beyond which you're no longer willing to stick it out?
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
