Thanks Glam,

You are so encouraging. My aunt said the same thing. He will not be able to think about anything but the funeral and his feelings for his family. I hope this is right.

He came over last night and picked the kids up and also fixed the down spouts on the house.

He said he was worried about leaving me alone without the kids. I told him I was very tired and needed the space. He had trouble leaving.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11