Well, I think I spoke too soon in my last post. Time is an incredible thing, the great equalizer.
It seems that the more time elaspes between the old, no sex part of our relationship, and the effort at a return to normalcy, the more at ease I become.
I think the trust is returning. Trust that we will never visit the desert again. Trust that her desire for me is genuine. Trust that she will be vigilant not to ease into old habits.
I am maintaining my part of the repair effort. There is a very real caring redeveloping between us. I really do wish we could have solved this riddle years ago before it became such a festering wound.
So, things are going well between us.
If I could offer heartfelt advice to everyone suffering with similar issues, it would siimply be, don't wait, do something about your problem - NOW. Sex problems in a marriage apparently seldom self resolve.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
