It sounds like you don't have a detailed list of the terms and conditions. I would have my Lawyer reply that "I can't possibly make a decision over whether to contest or not until I know What you are proposing".
Just my thoughts, though my experience on the legal side of things is very limited (thankfully)
I would insist on this, hon. He wants what he wants, but he can kick and scream all he wants, it will happen as slowly as it has been happening. And your L's job is to protect you. Ask her what she advises.
Remember our deal today and don't touch the hot stove.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
