Believe it or not, I wasn't asking because I was anxious to run in and 'save' you, and spread yet more of my opinionated beliefs around.
I was asking for purely selfish reasons, sorry to say. I don't want to be routine, see, and even though I think my H and I are back on track, we still view sex differently. I don't know that I'd ever recognize if things were getting routine for him...and if things could head that way, well, I'd like to try and stop it before it happens.
I've asked him, but sometimes I think maybe he might not level with me because he doesn't want to risk upsetting the apple cart.
There's the part of me that would also like to be able to surprise him, too, but within my comfort level.
I'm starting to get a bit experimental, but I'm sure it's not anything he'd consider 'over the top.'
So, that's really why I was asking. I don't know if you can really answer the question, though, without turning this into an X rated conversation...I don't know...maybe speak in generalities if you are comfortable. If not, that's cool, too.
