But look at my signature line....it worked out - so never say never!!!!!
Thanks for the hope! I'm glad to see your sitch worked out.
Right now H and the OOW have had a major falling out and it's over. I snooped because I was suspicious. Of course, he is turning to his online friends -- mostly women -- to talk about his broken relationship, which makes me uneasy because this is how he found OOW #2.
However, he has also been spending more time with me, alone -- for the past two nights we have watched TV after our D went to bed. And he has kissed me on the lips. I did backslide and tell him that I missed him. He mumbled something -- he had been drinking, however -- about coming back to our bed soon. So I have hope.
As much as I love my H, don't want to lose him, and want our marriage saved, I do have reservations about the whole A thing -- I'm afraid I will not get over it, or hold it against him, or not get a sufficient "apology" for what happened or admission that he was wrong. I'm trying to read about A sitches to see what I should do. I "understand" why he went in that direction, to a point, although it doesn't excuse him for not talking to me about the state of our M before he got sucked into the A.
Saffie, how do I move to the next step? I feel him returning, and I need to navigate these waters carefully.
M 39 H 34 D 6 M almost 8 years T 11 years Bomb: 6/5/08
