I had been through your latest thread. I really like how you are able to see your progress and the effect your actions have had on it. It really helps with putting everything together and being able to see your baby steps.
Your friends/family mean well. Your BF actually paid you a compliment by saying you are getting used to it. She was basically telling you that you appear strong and confident and am being yourself. Don't worry too much about her bastard comment. She is just being honest with you, she is ticked that your H is treating you this way and she is letting you knwo that she is one your side.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning