SD (and Rob)...I admire both of you...but dang....I am stuck with my Emperor's New Clothes view. How do you live without trust?

I can definitely see it with someone who made a single mistake, perhaps in an alcholic stupor, and wanted desperately to make things work.

But what about those that fall under the category of recidivist?
FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;