LL, Cathy, AM, LH, et al,
I very much appreciate all the comments and suggestions.

Here is what I have decided.

Right now, I am totally burned out on the whole issue. I am not going to mention divorce, or make any immediate plans to seek divorce. I am, unfortunately, totally dead passion wise. I no longer find her even remotely attractive. I don't know if that will pass, and I don't really care, although I am a bit suprised at the change.

I am being nice to her, and looking at her eyes when I talk to her most of the time. We are even cuddling a little bit when we sleep together. I will continue to be nice, and not angry. That is about all I can muster for the immediate future. Mostly, I will just wait it out and see what happens.

So, thanks again to everyone.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.