I honestly don't expect W to come back the day after OM leaves her and want to be married or work on it. I haven't mentioned us in a relationship sense in 3 weeks. last time I did was when I told her I understand how she feels, but my door is always open for reconciliation. That's when I heard "the minute we're divorced i'm marrying the OM"

well he didn't last long enough for that, sooooooooooo.......

Good call everyone on saying affairs *usually* last a max of 6 months, my W's was only 2....not saying OM won't be back....highly unlikely........W isn't over him though, and even if she was, she wants me to believe that she isn't coming back anyway....still can't let go of the fact that I wasn't there for her when she needed me.

damn


M 31 W 26
M 6
S 6 S 3
Separated 6/2008
Back together 10/2008
All you need is love