For the Guy with Kids and a WW 10

[Sugar and Spice]

If only we could figure out WHY we want to reach out so much. It has to be the rejection. We just cannot believe that its not us that they want.

Seriously, I wish I knew! I wish I had that answer, it would solve so many problems.

By the way, the girls like the Acqua di Gio most. Looks like we have a winner.

You won't be disappointed with the Acqua h4H.

Again, you two are KILLING ME!!!!

And no kidding, GBG's shirt IS fitting her tighter.

So next time she is acting like a total bitch, ask her if she washed it in hot water cuz it looks a little snug...not really going to further the goal, but the look on her face will be PRICELESS!!!!! Sorry, that wasn't nice, but think about it next time your in this situation and I guarantee you'll get a smile on your face!

I almost pushed send. To have her not respond would have just killed me. So why chance it? I would have looked weak anyway. But it is damn hard to NOT reach out.

. And I love that you called W stupid ass, I mumble that about H from time to time. lol

I mumble Dumb ass and f*cktard a lot...like a mantra these days.

H4H, you are doing the best you can and I'm proud of your self restraint. Just be there for the girls and maybe take some time to really figure out what your goal is. If being around GBG is making you feel like you don't want to do this anymore, then get away from her and see how you feel. Remember, absence make the heart grow fonder...sometimes we wish they could be "bump in the desert" absent, but then that may just be my dream.
Sounds like you actually went and had some fun while the girls were gone and that is good. Do some stuff for H4H and work on YOU and what YOU like and want. GBG needs to see what she is missing, she needs to miss you. She can't miss you if you are always there for her. I'm not one to be preaching, I know, but I think a little distance would only benefit you....
((((hugs)))) to one of the aqua men.