If there is somthing that I haven't done for the woman, then God hasn't invented the thing. I even took care of what she said had bothered her over the years. I felt bad about it too.
At this point, there is nothing *I* can do to change her problem. I can decide to live with it and take life and relationship at face value, or I can can try to start over with someone a bit more disposed toward being with me. She can not be what she isn't and I can't force her. The major mistake in our relationship occured 27 years ago.
Having said that, if anyone can show me that the source of the problem is something I am doing, then I would be extremely grateful. I can change me. I won't change the unwillingness to continue status quo, however. That part is over.
I do appreciate the reply. Please don't let my situation hurt yours. If anything, let it drive you toward a solution.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
