Ah, I know I get long winded, but, I really could use some advice here. See the question I posed in the post above this one.
Sunday, we went to church and out for doughnuts afterward. I was planning on taking the kids ice skating at the YMCA where W works later, so I picked her up a doughnut. We went to the Y and the ice rink was closed for a week for maintenance and W wasn't working until later. The kids and I came for a visit later and I gave W her treat. She and I talked for a while.
Today, she came to get the kids and take them to school. I ran to the store to get money for hot lunch and with a need to get change, I bought her a coffee. She thanked me twice for the coffee. I felt that the doughnut and the coffee were things that I might do for a friend.
After work this evening, instead of calling, W came to the house. We talked about a couple of things, and she brought a real estate guide and was telling me about a couple of houses for sale in the town where we would like to move. She mentioned that she has a funeral to attend. I asked if it was a friend, and she replied that it was a friend's brother who committed suicide. I offered condolences, but, it didn't seem time for a hug.
So, another set of questions arise. First, yesterday when the kids and I went to visit W at work, I noticed that she was wearing a different ring instead of her wedding ring, though she has been wearing her wedding ring. This morning, she was wearing the same two rings as yesterday, though again that isn't terribly unusual to put the same rings on as the previous evening. Then, after work today, she was wearing her silver rings while her wedding ring is gold. I'm not super concerned, I guess that I'm feeling a little uncertain and looking for signs. Just as an aside, I don't wear my wedding ring much except when I'm going to see W, so perhaps it's shame on me.
The question on my mind is wondering if perhaps my W is stopping by because she wants to see me. She saw the kids this morning, but, I should have been already on my way to work. What do you all think? What should I think?
