2 steps forward, 3 back

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I know honey.

But you want your interactions to take you closer to him, not further away.

You might have to tell your kids how it's gonna be. I know that isn't easy. And it's not fair. You shouldn't have to be the one living in a glass bowl with the kids.

I'm happy you have those friends around you. My friends saved my life.

I didn't have the same situation, but I had t he same falling apart. The same needing some care. My kids are about the same age span, but both girls.....around the same ages as yours during a lot of my drama.

Honey...it WILL be ok. It will be MORE OK and FASTER the sooner you get it together.

My kids saw me fall apart. It isn't really good for them. Especially a lot. It rocks their world a little. They already can't count on dad.

You're a good person. I know you're wanting to fight for what is right. Do it. Just do it differently....give yourself a chance to get different results.


I know you can.