The only sex I want from her, is the kind you have with someone you love and want to have sex with :-)
I don't have a particular 'bent' in mind. Have you ever had sex with someone with the lights on and you were totally unashamed of, and at ease with your body because you trusted /loved the person you were with? That is the kind of sex I want with my wife. Sex because sex feels good and you want to share the joy. Sex because it is fun. Sex just because it 's raining on a Saturday afternoon, and you decide to spend the afternoon watching movies, lying naked on the bed. Sex just because....
I understand that people are busy and times, kids, schedules , whatever get in the way. I understand that necessitates some level of "planned spontaneity".
My point in my previous posts is that I have realized, that she won't/can't want me. Service me - yes, want me - no.
I have 27 years of proof. I still maintain, that short of a miracle, there is about zero chance that she will wake up one morning, and say "damn, I think I want to spend the day naked with hubby" or "damn, I think I will dress up all hot and parade around a bit" or plug in whatever you like here.
-Hey, I washed your car today. Know why, cause I like you. -Hey, I haven't seen your face lately, and I miss your smile. Please come over -Hey, let's go get naked and play.
What the hell is abnormal about wanting to have sex with your love? Maybe married people take lovers because they can't find one at home.
The rant is not directed at you, LL.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
